I recently migrated from SBS to Standard Windows servers with exchange 2013 and I'm having a heck of a time fighting spam. Mailflow is working fine, and we setup spam fighter exchange module which is catching most of the spam. However, it is missing some that are spoofing our domain name with addresses that do and don't exist. I've read that the best way to stop this is to setup spf filtering and to do this you should setup reverse dns ptr records so you don't get blacklisted. The directions are rather confusing. They say to setup a ptr record with your mail server's ip address. Here are my questions...
Do I have to set this up on both my dns and my service providers dns?
I currently have a A record and a ptr record pointing to the internal ip address on my internal dns server with the actual server name, but no records pointing to remote.domain.com.
Do I need to create additional A and PTR records using the External IP and remote.domain.com?
Right now my mx record points to mail.domain.com, but all of our connectors use remote.domain.com. Should the mx be changed to remote.domain.com?
Thanks for any help.